来者不拒 (lái zhě bú jù) — (set phrase) to never turn anyone away; to accept every request or offer

Definition

A chengyu meaning 'never turn anyone away' — used for someone who accepts every request, offer, or new member without refusal.

idiom
(set phrase) to never turn anyone awayto accept every request or offer

Examples

  • 来者不拒,。
    Zhè jiā cān tīng duì gù kè lái zhě bú jù, wú lùn diǎn duō shǎo cài dōu rè qíng fú wù.
    This restaurant never turns away customers; no matter how many dishes you order, they serve with enthusiasm.
  • 来者不拒,,。
    Tā xiàng lái lái zhě bú jù, zhǐ yào yǒu rén zhǎo tā bāng máng, tā dōu huì dā ying.
    He has always been the type to never say no; whenever someone asks him for help, he agrees.
  • 来者不拒,。
    Zhè ge shè tuán lái zhě bú jù, huān yíng suǒ yǒu xīn chéng yuán jiā rù.
    This club accepts everyone; it welcomes all new members.

Origin

Characters in this word

A drawing of the thing itself, worn down over three thousand years into a few strokes.

This origin belongs to the traditional form 來; 来 is its simplified writing.

The traditional form 來 shows a wheat plant: a central ear, upward leaves, and downward stem and roots. The simplified 来 is a later shorthand.

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A drawing of the thing itself, worn down over three thousand years into a few strokes.

The form 者 originally drew a sugarcane with full stems, small points around it, and an open smiling mouth at the bottom.

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A drawing of the thing itself, worn down over three thousand years into a few strokes.

The picture in 不 originally showed a flower’s calyx; the “no” sense came later from a related character, not from this picture.

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Most characters — around four in five — are built this way: one part hints at the meaning, the other at the pronunciation.

Meaning part形符xíngfú
扌Written in full as手shǒuhand
Sound part声符shēngfú
巨
巨jù拒⁰jù
Same sound today

拒 pairs 扌 (hand) with 巨, a part that gives the sound.

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