对不起 (duì bu qǐ) — I'm sorry; excuse me; to let (sb) down; to disappoint

Definition

对不起 is a sincere apology — stronger than 不好意思, which is used for small faults or to interrupt. To apologize before asking a favor, say 请问 instead.

verb
I'm sorryexcuse meto let (sb) downto disappoint

Examples

  • 对不起
    duì bu qǐ, Wǒ lái wǎn le.
    I'm sorry, I came late.
  • 对不起
    duì bu qǐ, Qǐng wèn xiàn zài jǐ diǎn le?
    Excuse me, may I ask what time it is?
  • 对不起
    Wǒ duì bu qǐ nǐ.
    I let you down.

Origin

Compound word
构词法gòucífǎ
补充bǔchōngVerb + complement

An action followed by its result or direction.

不起cannot rise
notrise
偏正Modifier + head

对 means face, 不 means not, and 起 means rise, so 对不起 is unable to face someone.

Characters in this word

Two or more meaningful parts placed together so that their meanings combine into a new one.

This origin belongs to the traditional form 對; 对 is its simplified writing.

For the traditional form 對, the shape comes from an early drawing of 丵 (a digging tool), 土 (earth), and 又 (a hand); it may have meant developing land.

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A drawing of the thing itself, worn down over three thousand years into a few strokes.

The picture in 不 originally showed a flower’s calyx; the “no” sense came later from a related character, not from this picture.

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Most characters — around four in five — are built this way: one part hints at the meaning, the other at the pronunciation.

Meaning part形符xíngfú
Sound part声符shēngfú
Close in sound todayThe sound part was a clue two thousand years ago — it often still helps, but not always.

起 is made from 走 and 巳: 走 is the part connected with walking or running, and 巳 gives the sound.

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