心慈手软 (xīn cí shǒu ruǎn) — too soft-hearted to act harshly; unable to take a hard line when needed

Definition

A four-character idiom criticizing someone for being too soft-hearted to take firm action when needed — usually a flaw, not a virtue. Often contrasts with 铁面无私 or 执法如山 in formal writing.

idiom
too soft-hearted to act harshlyunable to take a hard line when needed

Examples

  • 心慈手软,。
    Tā dāng lǐng dǎo zuì dà de quē diǎn jiù shì xīn cí shǒu ruǎn, gāi fá de rén cóng lái bù fá.
    His biggest flaw as a leader is being too soft-hearted—he never punishes those who deserve it.
  • 心慈手软,。
    Zài shāng chǎng shàng rú guǒ zǒng shì xīn cí shǒu ruǎn, hěn nán gēn duì shǒu jìng zhēng.
    If you're always too soft-hearted in business, it's hard to compete with rivals.
  • 心慈手软,。
    Fǎ guān pàn àn bù néng xīn cí shǒu ruǎn, fǒu zé fǎ lǜ jiù méi yǒu quán wēi le.
    A judge cannot be too soft-hearted in rulings, otherwise the law loses its authority.

Origin

Compound word
构词法gòucífǎ
联合liánhéCoordinate

Two parts of equal weight, alike or opposite in meaning, standing side by side.

心慈heart kind
心xīnheart慈cíkind
主谓Subject + predicate
手软hand soft
主谓Subject + predicate

心 is kind and 手 is soft, so the person cannot act harshly.

Characters in this word

A drawing of the thing itself, worn down over three thousand years into a few strokes.

The shape of 心 comes from a drawing of a heart, now highly stylized.

Open 心 →

Most characters — around four in five — are built this way: one part hints at the meaning, the other at the pronunciation.

Meaning part形符xíngfú
心心xīnheart
Sound part声符shēngfú
茲
茲zī慈cí
Close in sound todayThe sound part was a clue two thousand years ago — it often still helps, but not always.

慈 has 心 (heart) below 茲, which gives its sound; the heart shows the character relates to feelings such as kindness and love.

Open 慈 →

A drawing of the thing itself, worn down over three thousand years into a few strokes.

手 draws a five-fingered human hand: the top line is a bent middle finger, and the horizontal lines show the other four fingers.

Open 手 →

Most characters — around four in five — are built this way: one part hints at the meaning, the other at the pronunciation.

This origin belongs to the traditional form 軟; 软 is its simplified writing.

Meaning part形符xíngfú
車車jūcarriage
Sound part声符shēngfú
耎
耎ruǎn軟ruǎn
Same sound today

The traditional form 軟 pairs 車 (carriage) with 耎 as a sound part; 耎 depicted a man under rain, and simplified 软 uses a later right side instead of 耎.

Open 软 →

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