怨 (yuàn) — to blame, to complain (with a sense of grievance)

Definition

Examples

• 他总怨别人不帮他，却不想想自己做了什么。
  Tā zǒng yuàn bié rén bù bāng tā, què bù xiǎng xiǎng zì jǐ zuò le shén me.
  He always blames others for not helping him, but doesn't think about what he himself did.
• 这件事不能怨你，是大家没沟通好。
  Zhè jiàn shì bù néng yuàn nǐ, shì dà jiā méi gōu tōng hǎo.
  This matter cannot be blamed on you; it's that everyone didn't communicate well.
• 她怨丈夫不关心她，其实她自己也不主动。
  Tā yuàn zhàng fu bù guān xīn tā, qí shí tā zì jǐ yě bù zhǔ dòng.
  She blames her husband for not caring about her, but actually she herself doesn't take the initiative.

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