你来我往 (nǐ lái wǒ wǎng) — (chengyu) to give and take; back-and-forth exchange (of words, blows, favors, etc.)

Definition

A four-character idiom for reciprocal exchange — favors, gifts, words, or blows — between two sides. Often pairs with 互相 to stress mutuality.

idiom
(chengyu) to give and takeback-and-forth exchange (of words, blows, favors, etc.)

Examples

  • 你来我往
    Tā men zài biàn lùn huì shàng nǐ lái wǒ wǎng, hù bù xiāng ràng.
    They went back and forth in the debate, neither side giving in.
  • 你来我往
    Liǎng rén zài quán jī chǎng shàng nǐ lái wǒ wǎng, dǎ dé fēi cháng jīng cǎi.
    The two went at it in the boxing ring, fighting brilliantly.
  • 你来我往
    Jié rì qī jiān rén men nǐ lái wǒ wǎng, hù xiāng zèng sòng lǐ wù.
    During the holidays people exchange gifts back and forth with each other.

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