朝三暮四 (zhāo sān mù sì) — to be fickle; to change one's mind repeatedly; to blow hot and cold; to be inconsistent

Definition

A chengyu for someone who keeps changing their mind on what they already agreed to — 'fickle, blows hot and cold.' Unlike 犹豫 (a personal feeling of hesitation), 朝三暮四 implies breaking a prior commitment, which is why others lose trust.

phrase
to be fickleto change one's mind repeatedlyto blow hot and coldto be inconsistent

Examples

  • 朝三暮四
    Tā zhè ge rén zǒng shì zhāo sān mù sì, suǒ yǐ dà jiā dōu bú tài xiāng xìn tā.
    He is always fickle, so people don't really trust him.
  • 朝三暮四
    Nǐ yǐ jīng dā ying le bié rén, jiù bù néng zhāo sān mù sì.
    You've already agreed with others, so you can't blow hot and cold.
  • 朝三暮四
    Tā zài gōng zuò zhōng yě cháng zhāo sān mù sì, ràng rén hěn tóu téng.
    She is also often indecisive at work, which really gives people a headache.

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