自愧不如 (zì kuì bù rú) — to feel ashamed of one's inferiority compared to someone else; to acknowledge one's inadequacy with shame

Definition

A formal chengyu for 'to feel ashamed of one's own inferiority when comparing oneself to someone better'. It frames the gap between yourself and another person — you come up short, not just a little.

idiom
to feel ashamed of one's inferiority compared to someone elseto acknowledge one's inadequacy with shame

Examples

  • ,自愧不如。
    Tā de gāng qín tán dé nà me hǎo, wǒ zhēn shì zì kuì bù rú.
    He plays the piano so well; I really feel ashamed of my inferiority.
  • ,自愧不如。
    Zài xiě zuò fāng miàn, wǒ duì tā zì kuì bù rú.
    In terms of writing, I feel ashamed that I am not as good as him.
  • ,自愧不如。
    Xiāng bǐ zhī xià, wǒ zì kuì bù rú le.
    By comparison, I feel ashamed of my inferiority.

Origin

Characters in this word

A drawing of the thing itself, worn down over three thousand years into a few strokes.

假借jiǎjièLater borrowed for its sound alone — the picture has nothing to do with today’s meaning.

自 originally drew a nose. It was borrowed purely for its sound to write 自, so the picture and the meaning are unrelated.

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Most characters — around four in five — are built this way: one part hints at the meaning, the other at the pronunciation.

Meaning part形符xíngfú
心心xīnheart
Sound part声符shēngfú
鬼
鬼guǐ愧kuì
Close in sound todayThe sound part was a clue two thousand years ago — it often still helps, but not always.

愧 has 心, the heart, on the left and 鬼 on the right. 鬼 gives the sound, while 心 shows that the meaning is a feeling in the heart.

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A drawing of the thing itself, worn down over three thousand years into a few strokes.

The picture in 不 originally showed a flower’s calyx; the “no” sense came later from a related character, not from this picture.

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Most characters — around four in five — are built this way: one part hints at the meaning, the other at the pronunciation.

Meaning part形符xíngfú
口口kǒumouth
Sound part声符shēngfú
女
女nǚ如rú
Same sound today

如 is built from 口 (mouth) for its meaning and 女 (woman) for its sound.

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