怠慢 (dài màn) — to slight, to neglect (a person, especially a guest or friend); (polite expression) to have been a poor host; to have failed to entertain properly

Definition

A polite/formal verb meaning to slight or neglect a guest. As a set phrase, 怠慢了 is a self-deprecating apology a host says to a visitor.

verb
to slightto neglect (a person, especially a guest or friend)(polite expression) to have been a poor hostto have failed to entertain properly

Examples

  • 怠慢
    Tā jué de zì jǐ dài màn le péng you, xīn lǐ hěn guò yì bú qù.
    He felt he had slighted his friend and felt very sorry about it.
  • 怠慢怠慢
    Zhǔ rén lián shēng shuō: "dài màn le, dài màn le, zhāo dài bù zhōu."
    The host repeatedly said, 'I've been a poor host, the hospitality was inadequate.'
  • 怠慢
    Qiān wàn bù néng dài màn yuǎn dào ér lái de kè rén.
    You must not neglect guests who have come from afar.

Origin

Compound word
构词法gòucífǎ
联合liánhéCoordinate

Two parts of equal weight, alike or opposite in meaning, standing side by side.

dàineglect or slackness
mànrudeness

怠 suggests neglect or slackness, while 慢 suggests rudeness; together they mean to slight someone or fail to treat them well.

Characters in this word

Most characters — around four in five — are built this way: one part hints at the meaning, the other at the pronunciation.

Meaning part形符xíngfú
xīnheart
Sound part声符shēngfú
táidài
Close in sound todayThe sound part was a clue two thousand years ago — it often still helps, but not always.

In 怠, the bottom 心 is heart, and 台 gives the sound.

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Most characters — around four in five — are built this way: one part hints at the meaning, the other at the pronunciation.

Meaning part形符xíngfú
Written in full asxīnheart
Sound part声符shēngfú
mànmàn
Same sound today

慢 pairs 忄 (heart) with 曼 (màn). The heart part points to a manner or sluggish behavior, while 曼’s meaning “long, extended” adds the sense of taking a long time.

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