合不来 (hé bù lái) — cannot get along with someone, be incompatible

Definition

A separable verb describing two people whose personalities or temperaments clash — they cannot get along. Contrast with 处不来 (cannot deal with someone) which points to difficulty in handling or interacting, not a personality mismatch.

verb
cannot get along with someonebe incompatible

Examples

  • 合不来
    Tā men liǎ hé bù lái, zǒng shì chǎo jià.
    Those two can't get along; they're always arguing.
  • 合不来
    Wǒ hé tā de xìng gé hé bù lái.
    His personality and mine don't mesh.
  • 合不来
    Xīn lái de tóng shì gēn shuí dōu hé bù lái.
    The new colleague can't get along with anyone.

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